Wednesday, March 19, 2008
在你心中有这样的一个人吗？
你们可能相爱过，你们也可能喜欢着彼此，但是，为了什么原因你们没能在一起？也许他为了朋友之间的义气，不能追你。也许为了顾及家人的意见 ，你们没有在一起。 也许为了出国深造，他没有要你等他。也许你们相遇太早，还不懂得珍惜对方。也许你们相遇太晚，你们身边已经有了另一个人。也许你回头太迟，对方已不再等待。也许你们彼此在捉摸对方的心，而迟迟无法跨出界线。.不过即使你们没在一起，你们还是保持了朋友的关系。但是你们心底清楚，对这个人，你比朋友还多了一份关心。即使不能跟他名正言顺的牵着手逛街，你们还是可以做无所不谈的朋友。他有喜欢的人，你口头上会帮他追，心里却不是很清楚你是不是真的希望他追到。.他遇到困难时，你会尽你所能的帮他，不会计较谁又欠了谁。男女朋友吃醋了，你会安抚他们说你和他只是朋友，但你心中会有那么一丝的不确定。每个人这辈子，心中都有过这幺一个特别的朋友，很矛盾的行为。一开始你不甘心只做朋友的，但久了，突然发现这样最好。你宁愿这样关心他， 总好过你们在一起而有天会分手。你宁愿做他的朋友，彼此不会吃醋，才可以真的无所不谈。特别是这样，你还是知道，他永远会关心你的。做不成男女朋友，当他那个特别的朋友，有什么不好呢？你心中的这个特别的朋友...? 是谁呢？很多的感情，都因为一厢情愿，最后连朋友都当不成了，常常觉得惋惜，可惜一些本来很好的友情，最后却因为对方的一句喜欢你，如果你没有反应，这一段友情似乎也难以维持下去，这也难怪有些人会因此不肯踏出这一步。因为这就像是一场赌注，表白了之后不是成了男女朋友，要不就连朋友都当不成了。有些事不是你能预料的，或许对方不在意，你们还可以是朋友，但却已经不如从前的好。也是可惜，也是遗憾！但还有没有可能是另一种情况，你可能永远都不甘心只是朋友...
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
CVG Gengs
Pearly ~ Siao Po in CVG...have same laughing voice like me...Big Eyes....know a bit of mandarin, very very like wang lee hom and wu zhun cz both got same criteria ~ Leng Chai...kkekeke....sometimes like aunty....cz she knw hw to get cheaper for things....1 IMPORTANT things...she very like to eat...
Celine~ This 1 look thinny like skeleton, but sometimes very serious, when she siao..opps she will thinking something pelik pelik.....very funny....when she tension, better dun nearby her cz scare later will kena kena teruk. She like to jump here jump there and most famous with workerholic...stay in office till very late....She also gt 1 hobby like to tarik ppl's bra....and sentuh ppl's punggung and also like to scare frm behind...hehe
Wai Theng ~ We like to call her wtf , aunty wai theng, daisy fong, cicak fong.....among many nickname, aunty Fong is the famous 1... kekke cz her criteria look like aunty...SHOPPING is her favourite. Sometime she very funny, sometimes she is siao, sometimes she is caring and sometimes....many different of her...hhahaa...She nw practicing to become good housewife...so her attitude closer to aunty stage...kekekke(devil laugh)
Su Hooi~This gal come in the CVG same day with me. 1st c her, she was lone ranger cz go anywhere also alone. She is pegang teguh with her "Su Hooi Prinsip".Once she say No, that mean nobody can stop her...She gt her own way, dislike ppl to control her. Gt 1 thing she look like "aunty"~she seldom eat fried food cz she say is "PANAS". hahaha....She awalys wearing her jacket even though is HOT weather..oh no...i really scare she will pengsan.She dislike take photo and she seldom wear skirt.I had plan to hadiah her skirt..kekkeke
Alister~Cool ...1st impression....Very cool...kekeke..This gal,actually her heart like "Tofu", once touch will broke...hahaha. She give me many lesson, feel free or got any problem can find her to chatting. Is a sporty gal. I always play futsal, basketball with her. Good in stamina..Like to eat...when u c her eat, u will follow to eat so..
Bee Bee ~ Just like my big sister...Is nice to meet her. She is among us got very "EVIL' body..hhhehe..."36, 25. 36"...opps but she is married...so sweet with her husband. She also influent me...by giving many theory of BEE...Now her siaoness will become more serious.
Celine~ This 1 look thinny like skeleton, but sometimes very serious, when she siao..opps she will thinking something pelik pelik.....very funny....when she tension, better dun nearby her cz scare later will kena kena teruk. She like to jump here jump there and most famous with workerholic...stay in office till very late....She also gt 1 hobby like to tarik ppl's bra....and sentuh ppl's punggung and also like to scare frm behind...hehe
Wai Theng ~ We like to call her wtf , aunty wai theng, daisy fong, cicak fong.....among many nickname, aunty Fong is the famous 1... kekke cz her criteria look like aunty...SHOPPING is her favourite. Sometime she very funny, sometimes she is siao, sometimes she is caring and sometimes....many different of her...hhahaa...She nw practicing to become good housewife...so her attitude closer to aunty stage...kekekke(devil laugh)
Su Hooi~This gal come in the CVG same day with me. 1st c her, she was lone ranger cz go anywhere also alone. She is pegang teguh with her "Su Hooi Prinsip".Once she say No, that mean nobody can stop her...She gt her own way, dislike ppl to control her. Gt 1 thing she look like "aunty"~she seldom eat fried food cz she say is "PANAS". hahaha....She awalys wearing her jacket even though is HOT weather..oh no...i really scare she will pengsan.She dislike take photo and she seldom wear skirt.I had plan to hadiah her skirt..kekkeke
Alister~Cool ...1st impression....Very cool...kekeke..This gal,actually her heart like "Tofu", once touch will broke...hahaha. She give me many lesson, feel free or got any problem can find her to chatting. Is a sporty gal. I always play futsal, basketball with her. Good in stamina..Like to eat...when u c her eat, u will follow to eat so..
Bee Bee ~ Just like my big sister...Is nice to meet her. She is among us got very "EVIL' body..hhhehe..."36, 25. 36"...opps but she is married...so sweet with her husband. She also influent me...by giving many theory of BEE...Now her siaoness will become more serious.
1st time in CVG
Working in CVG is my 1st job. Actually, i was accidentally enter this company. This job was introduce by my best friend ~ Chiu Ling.
I still remember, when i 1st enter this company. My heart was so nervous. Cause i dunno any one and i dunno who i wan to talk to.
I just be closed with Chiu Ling and her friends onli. Every day, i feel so boring and tension. I cant laugh as i am. I need to keep quite and be like other character.
The condition become worse when Chiu Ling is leaving. I imagine my life will become grey and lonely. I got no one to depend, no one to help me solve, no one talk to me......
I more tension when i doing the wrong things.
I found someone which the condition also same like me ~ Su Hooi or like to call her Sim Sim.
Her condition more worst than me. So we become good friends. Always eat together, talk together and settle the problem together even though i not handle her clients or same. Then i found that she asame like my best friend who also has the same charaterlistic. HAhahhaa...
This was my 1st feeling in CVG.
I still remember, when i 1st enter this company. My heart was so nervous. Cause i dunno any one and i dunno who i wan to talk to.
I just be closed with Chiu Ling and her friends onli. Every day, i feel so boring and tension. I cant laugh as i am. I need to keep quite and be like other character.
The condition become worse when Chiu Ling is leaving. I imagine my life will become grey and lonely. I got no one to depend, no one to help me solve, no one talk to me......
I more tension when i doing the wrong things.
I found someone which the condition also same like me ~ Su Hooi or like to call her Sim Sim.
Her condition more worst than me. So we become good friends. Always eat together, talk together and settle the problem together even though i not handle her clients or same. Then i found that she asame like my best friend who also has the same charaterlistic. HAhahhaa...
This was my 1st feeling in CVG.
18 Non-monetary Things Can Be Happy
1. Be with loved ones.
Research shows that happy people spend very little time alone. Instead, they surround themselves with friends and family, and find joy in sharing their lives with others.
2. Marry someone you love and respect.
Advice from Socrates: “By all means marry: if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher”.
3. Smile a lot.
Acting the part often leads to feeling the part. Besides, it’ll make you look a lot better, and might even make someone else happy.
4. Laugh a lot.
Not only is it good for your heart, but also for you and the people near you.
5. Be honest — except for a few white lies.
Honesty is the best policy, and saves a lot of heartache down the road. Of course, the road to honesty is to become a person of exceptional integrity, which while difficult, is possible. But remember to tell your next-door neighbor that she looks like she lost some weight…
6. Spend less than you earn, and plan for your retirement.
No matter how little you’re earning, and how badly you want to buy those expensive shoes (apply whatever seems to pull you the most) don’t splurge on them if your bank manager isn’t too pleased with you.
7. Give as much as you can.
Children in orphanages often write to Santa: “I don’t really want anything, but my sister needs a coat because it’s so cold”. Give to those with less than you, both in terms of time and money. Few other actions are as rewarding.
8. Lead a sensual life.
Surround yourself with pleasant smells: nice perfume, beautiful flowers, baking cookies. Keep a nice painting or photo on your wall. Buy flowers. Eat spicy food.
9. Get rid of clutter.
Clean your wardrobe, your desk, your kitchen. Don’t let things that don’t help pile up.
10. Donate things that you don’t use.
Whether they’re books that you don’t read, clothes that you don’t wear, or gifts that you’ll never use: give them to someone who’ll appreciate them.
11. Be healthy.
Eat healthy, avoid junk food and excess alcohol, exercise regularly,
and make sure you go for your yearly check-ups.
12. Remember that you’re healthy.
An interesting study shows that happiness is not directly correlated
to being healthy. Many healthy people take their health for granted. Whereas some sickly people appreciate the few healthy days that they enjoy.
Hypochondriacs are the most miserable.
13. Be grateful.
Gratitude is essential to happiness.
Psychiatrists have found that talking and writing about what they’re grateful for amplifies adults’ happiness. Learning to savor the small
pleasures has the same effect.
14. Spend some time reflecting on life.
Meditate, keep a journal, or do both.
They will give you perspective and structure to your life.
15. Set your own standards.
Forget the Jones. Establish goals for yourself, based on what you think are reasonable. You’ll be happier when you achieve those, than what the Jones’ have.
16. Find activities that you love.
Try to spend most of your time doing work or activities which make time flow faster. The happiest people are usually busy with things that they love to do, whether it’s cooking, starting a new business, or being with a child.
17. Construct routines, but remember that surprises often lead to greater
happiness.
Life is too full of uncertainties to be controlled. Yet those experiences which we don’t plan for, often lead to greater growth and fulfillment.
18. Stretch yourself mentally.
Learning leads to a satisfaction much greater than any impulse purchase.
And finally, for ways to achieve happiness, share this with others.
Research shows that happy people spend very little time alone. Instead, they surround themselves with friends and family, and find joy in sharing their lives with others.
2. Marry someone you love and respect.
Advice from Socrates: “By all means marry: if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher”.
3. Smile a lot.
Acting the part often leads to feeling the part. Besides, it’ll make you look a lot better, and might even make someone else happy.
4. Laugh a lot.
Not only is it good for your heart, but also for you and the people near you.
5. Be honest — except for a few white lies.
Honesty is the best policy, and saves a lot of heartache down the road. Of course, the road to honesty is to become a person of exceptional integrity, which while difficult, is possible. But remember to tell your next-door neighbor that she looks like she lost some weight…
6. Spend less than you earn, and plan for your retirement.
No matter how little you’re earning, and how badly you want to buy those expensive shoes (apply whatever seems to pull you the most) don’t splurge on them if your bank manager isn’t too pleased with you.
7. Give as much as you can.
Children in orphanages often write to Santa: “I don’t really want anything, but my sister needs a coat because it’s so cold”. Give to those with less than you, both in terms of time and money. Few other actions are as rewarding.
8. Lead a sensual life.
Surround yourself with pleasant smells: nice perfume, beautiful flowers, baking cookies. Keep a nice painting or photo on your wall. Buy flowers. Eat spicy food.
9. Get rid of clutter.
Clean your wardrobe, your desk, your kitchen. Don’t let things that don’t help pile up.
10. Donate things that you don’t use.
Whether they’re books that you don’t read, clothes that you don’t wear, or gifts that you’ll never use: give them to someone who’ll appreciate them.
11. Be healthy.
Eat healthy, avoid junk food and excess alcohol, exercise regularly,
and make sure you go for your yearly check-ups.
12. Remember that you’re healthy.
An interesting study shows that happiness is not directly correlated
to being healthy. Many healthy people take their health for granted. Whereas some sickly people appreciate the few healthy days that they enjoy.
Hypochondriacs are the most miserable.
13. Be grateful.
Gratitude is essential to happiness.
Psychiatrists have found that talking and writing about what they’re grateful for amplifies adults’ happiness. Learning to savor the small
pleasures has the same effect.
14. Spend some time reflecting on life.
Meditate, keep a journal, or do both.
They will give you perspective and structure to your life.
15. Set your own standards.
Forget the Jones. Establish goals for yourself, based on what you think are reasonable. You’ll be happier when you achieve those, than what the Jones’ have.
16. Find activities that you love.
Try to spend most of your time doing work or activities which make time flow faster. The happiest people are usually busy with things that they love to do, whether it’s cooking, starting a new business, or being with a child.
17. Construct routines, but remember that surprises often lead to greater
happiness.
Life is too full of uncertainties to be controlled. Yet those experiences which we don’t plan for, often lead to greater growth and fulfillment.
18. Stretch yourself mentally.
Learning leads to a satisfaction much greater than any impulse purchase.
And finally, for ways to achieve happiness, share this with others.
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